My Parenting Life

Weekend means family outing to me, where we will either go shopping or swimming and sometimes eating out. As usual, Jo1 has to attend her Mental Arithmetic class in the morning while I have to work until 1PM. Then, Jo1 has her Ballet class from 1:45 – 2:30PM.

Unusual activites:

1. Pick up cakes from Jenni’s cakehouse b’coz it’s Ahsley’s 1st B’day. Ashley is my sis#2 daughter. Then, send maid over my sis’s house to help out. She is having a b’day party with all homemade dishes except those nyonya kuih.
2. Ahsley’s b’day party from 7 – 9:30PM.
3. Went home…..change kids into pyjamas & zzzz…..
4. On Sunday, wake up & take breakfast.
5. Parents is going to Taiwan for a short trip. I was supposed to send them to Airport, but bro took over the job, so I ended up watching my drama which I haven’t finish since I started during CNY. (Feb)
6. Bring kids to Gurney Plaza. MeadJohnson is having a smart camp there. Spend about 3 hours there (can’t believe) kids juz love the activities there with lots of fun & games & freebies. They played in a pool with balls, bowling, music. They saw other children performed dance, story telling and etc.
7. Leaving for swimming club @ 4:30PM. Kids play sand @ beach and we had our dinner there. Jo1 had Fish w/ mushroom & cheese gravy, while Jo2 like the spagetti.
8. Back to Gurney Plaza again……can’t believe that. Jo1 insists on going back, and she really enjoyed herself there. She even make new friends there, that’s really something impressed me.

I was really exhausted after going from places to places. But, I think is worth it since the kids learned new things with these kind of exposure rather than let them sitting @ home watching TV.

Photo taken on the 1st lesson of her pre-primary class

My little “Botak Chai”

Father’s vision is getting so bad that he has to depend on eye drops prescript by doc to make his vision clear. According to doc, his right eye sight is totally blind, and he need to undergo a cataract surgery to remove the “clouding” on the lens. My biggest worries is that, father’s cataract is not the usual type due to aging, but probably hit or accident fall. According to doc, his cataract is mature to be removed but there is a risk whereby once the clouded lens has been removed, the next step is to replace it. That is, to implant an artificial lens that will do the work of your own lens. Doc is afraid that my father’ eye cannot support the lens, which means will not be back to 100% .
Even though this is a minor surgery, but the worries is still there, and I really wish that it’s a success one.

I noticed that there is an improvement in Jo’2 speech
For example:

• Jo2: mummy, gong gong(grandfather) CAME home oredi?
  Jo2:mummy, go “joom” (slide @ playground)
• Jo2: want “drumstick” (chopstick), he likes to use chopstick and pretend to play drum.
• Call his name from downstairs & u will hear Jo2: yes, come-ming…..

He also like to talk like a pro using his new handphone (toy) which I bought for him recently. Most of the time I knew he pretend to call papa2jojo, and bla bla bla…… asking when papa will bring him out for walk walk I guess, then …ok…Bye!

1. Milk-milk time. He will take the bottle for Jo1 as well.
2. TV time. He is in charge of turning on/ off button. Disc player & TV.
3. Keep toys in place. Only if papa2jojo is around. He only keep part of it, I never expect more from him.
4. Keep shoes in place. Right after came home from “walk walk.”
5. Phone. He pick up the phone whenever he hears the phone is ringing. He can run faster than others.
6. Open tap water. Like to wash hand even though his hand is clean.
7. Snap photos. Like mommy, it’s juz mommy take photos of ppl but he shoots photos of anything……can fan, lights wall, potty chair, kitchen…..using mommy’s old camera.
8. Instruct Jo1. Ask Jo1 to go & change pyjamas, to go “tut shu” (do homework), go downstairs to eat.
9. Take potty-chair to Jo1. If he saw Jo1 is crying, and he knows that Jo1 will cry until throw out. So, he will give Jo1 the potty & ask her to “ouuo” in potty instead of on the floor.
10. Co-driver. This happed only when mommy is driving the car. I let him sit in front & buckle up seat belt (ever since I can’t make him sit in the car seat) he still able to escape out and play w/ the air-cond button, music player, signal light & wiper. It’s actually dangerous while I am driving. So, everytime I have to stop the car to scold him.

Jo1 has been complaining that her bro keep disturbing her, i.e: “mommy, di-di beat me.” or “mommy, di-di pull my hair.” Jo2 is totally different from Jo1, he can simply “attack” ppl from the back w/ no warning. Sometimes, he chase Jo1 from living room until kitchen for no reason, and juz want to play or scare Jo1. He thinks this is FUN.

In return, Jo1 has a powerful weapon……
If Jo2 make her angry, then she will shout :”Glove-fy, come……di-di is notty.” or “dong-dong qiang (lion dance), come…..come & bite di-di.” Once Jo2 hears this……very fast…..he will find a place to hide and he only dare to sneak a peek after he think that it’s safe. Even though it’s been many many time Jo1 uses this trick, it’s still works.

Actually, I was the one who started this tricks. I used to tell Jo2 that : dark dark oredi, lizard is coming out…… whenever he doesn’t want to go inside the bedroom to sleep when I am tired-liao.
I think both of them have a good imagination.

On my way home 4 lunch….
I walked into this bank (w/ tiger head logo), to check w/ the receptionist what are the procedures to open a saving account for my maid as required.( I heard that have to make appointment 1 week ahead)

Me: I want to open a “joint account,” my maid & I.
Rep: No, no, no. Maid cannot open joint account. We only allowed joint account if u have relationship w/ that person.
Me: But my sis opened a joint acct w/ her maid in xxx branch (same bank).
Rep: We had many customers came to open acct for their maid, the officer in other branch probably don’t know this rule.
Me: ok. So, no need to make appoint-la?
Rep: No, go straight to counter 1. Just fill up this form & yr maid must come & her passport.
Me: TQ.

Arrived home, asked my maid to go & change, told her that I wanted to take her out.
At the bank…..I handed over my application form to counter 1
(Note: Original conversation in Malay)
Teller: Is yr maid here?
Me: Yes.
Teller: Ask her to sign here (pointing at the bottom of the application form)
Teller: How much u want to bank in?
Me: RMxxx, (passed the money to her)
Teller: OK. That’s it. Come & collect yr passbook 2morrow, she has to come also.
Me: Ahhhh!!! But, juz now the lady there told me she has to come, now she is here whatever she need to sign let her sign now-la.
Teller: Cannot. There is 1 computer generated form that she needs to sign. I can only print out the form after I key in her particulars.
Me: Then u print it now & let her sign
Teller: U have to wait 2 hours…..want to wait? I have a few applicants b4 u.
Me: Is there anything u can do so that I don’t have to come 2 trips juz to open an account?
Teller: Why? Bring her here again-la….
Me: Cannot-la….please-la…..She has to take care of my
, and I have to arrange someone else to look after my “BABY” if she is out (actually I make this up hopefully she can tolerant)
Teller: Bring yr baby here as well-la…..
Me: ok-la……LOL

Juz cannot understand….They think going to bank is so much fun that we bring all the family?? Time is a problem, parking is another problem. Is that call “efficient?”
Anyway, they called me up told me that the passbook is ready @ 3pm (exactly 2 hours) and asked for employer’s name……Why-le???? As they said: I don’t have relationship w/ her, no joint acct allowed” Why they need my name now???